Monday, October 15, 2012

Nourishing my wounded spirit



I have found that doing something for others is incredibly healing, especially if I'm doing it in my daughter's memory.

A few years ago, family and friends gathered with me to volunteer at Feed My Starving Children - an event we created during the holidays in Isabelle's memory. We packed meals for two hours and learned about individuals who have a whole lot less than we do.

Since then I've volunteered as an elf at a children's home, organized collections of coats, toys and electronics, and routinely serve meals at a homeless shelter. I do this because volunteering nourishes my wounded spirit. Even when I'm grieving I have something to give, and that very well could be exactly what someone else needs.

If you've never volunteered and aren't sure of a good place to start, check out the options available when you enter your zip code at Volunteer Match.

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Light a candle ...

October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month and Oct. 15 is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day. Light your candle at 7 p.m. in memory of all angels who went home too soon ...

My beautiful sister made these candles for my book launch party. They're easy to make - all you need is a mason jar, paper (we used book pages), paper punch, raffia or ribbon, and a candle. The paper goes inside the jar.

Butterflies remind me of Isabelle, so we used a butterfly cut out for the shape. I wanted to leave the candle on without worrying about it getting knocked over and starting a fire, so we used a battery-powered tea light.

Here are a couple of other candle-lighting events in 2012:
  • December 6 - 7 p.m.: Angel of Hope candle lighting
  • December 9 - 7 p.m.: Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle lighting (2nd Sunday in December)
Related post: Candle angel wings